(Closed) Getting it over it (VENT)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

I’m sorry you feel like this. Just remember why you’re getting married, to man you love. Try not to let other people destroy that. Big Hugs!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

Ugh i think i will be the same way.  I cant stand drama. You just have to ignore it  and focus on the prize…saying “I Do”!

Post # 6
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Blushing bee

Ha ha Yes, people just get married so the focus will be on them! Sounds like your sister may be a little upset that she’s not the center of attention in all this?

Sorry you’re going through this. :-/ I don’t see any of my friends or family being divalicious when I’m planning my wedding, but if they are? Well, not only are they no longer a part of it, but they’re not even invited, regardless of who it is.

Sounds like it’s time for you to sit some people down & let them know their place! Or reevaluate that guest list & only include people who are truly happy for you & not looking to create Kardashian proportion drama.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@lisha_1988: I’m sorry you’re going through this. I hope everything goes well tomorrow.

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@lisha_1988:  So sorry to hear about all these dramas! I’m not having too many issues but I really had no idea until I got engaged just how easy it is to offend people during the planning! There is so much pressure and certain expectations at times that I feel like I have to be 10 steps ahead of everyone else and predict their reactions to things! Just to complicate things, my best friend I are now getting married 8 weeks apart so we are both going to have to keep the stress levels under control and be considerate of each other! Anyway hang in there and make sure you set aside time for your fiancé. I have dreamed about my wedding since I was a little girl and honestly, now that I’m planning it I couldn’t care less if we just eloped! I think it’s a good sign that my marriage is more exciting to me than having the perfect wedding. Bring on November 3! I hope your family starts being more supportive because it is such a special time for you.

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