(Closed) Getting married but not engaged???

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
2555 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Talk about it with him! Say “we have a wedding date, we’re getting married, and in my book you’re my fiance. it hurts me that you call me your girlfriend at this stage. so please, stand up to your parents, because I deserve it”.

Post # 4
Member
7753 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@ScorpioBee:  I don’t see what FI’s family has to do with the engagement ring. Him giving you the ring won’t make it any better or worse in their eyes, but it means a lot to you. I think you need to tell him he needs to get you the ring, as his way of saying, “I’m marrying her and there’s no going back”.

Post # 5
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I would be very cautious to marry someone who didn’t want to get officially engaged because he’s afraid of his family’s reaction. 

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