(Closed) Getting married in two days and I got my period. TMI perhaps…

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Would you have sex on your wedding night if it was your first time AND you had your period?
    Yes, go for it. : (100 votes)
    57 %
    No. Your first time shouldn't look like a murder scene. : (69 votes)
    39 %
    Other (explain) : (7 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
    1026 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Is he bothered by it?  If he thinks its gross its probably not going to happen.  If he doesn’t feel strongly about it go for it!  We like the shower for when AF visits.  Any mess gets rinsed away.  As long as it isn’t super heavy throw a towel on the bed and go for it.  If anything it provides a little extra lubrication which is always good.  The only time we don’t is if I’m super crampy and thats mainly because I don’t want to do anything but lay in bed and be miserable.

    Post # 4
    155 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @As_You_Wish:  Personally, I’d just go for it.  Put a towel down and enjoy showering together afterwards 🙂  What could be sexier than soaping each other up?!

    Post # 5
    2786 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I would talk to him…he might still want to, assuming you’re comfortable with that. Do you have a heavy flow? If you started today, then the wedding day would be three days in….you should have a much lighter flow by then. Plus, to be honest, if it’s your first time there might be bleeding anyway…..

    Post # 6
    368 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    I’d say shower up together before to get feeling clean (good foreplay!), put down a towel on the bed for the act, then shower again after (which, after your first time together, I imagine will be extremely intimate!). 


    Post # 8
    726 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @As_You_Wish:  I’d still go for it. When you’re on your period, it’s not a continuous flow of blood so it probably won’t be as bloody as you think it will be. Plus, in 2 days when it’s your wedding day, you will likely be past your heavy days anyway. Just put a towel down. 


    Post # 9
    4327 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 1992

    Don’t do anything that makes you uncomfortable! Are you a virgin, or did you just wait with this relationship? If your very first time ever, you may bleed anyway without a period. Just talk to him and see what makes him comfortable. My Darling Husband isn’t a fan of period-sex the idea, but when mine came AS WE WERE HAVING SEX, it wasn’t the worst thing in the world for him. Just see what his comfort level is, and stay true to yours.

    Post # 10
    656 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    As long as its not one of my heavy days, SO and I don’t mind “diving with the sharks” as he says. (I call my period “shark week”). We either put a towel down or hop into the shower or both. To be honest, I’ve learned everything is more sensative in a good way down there during my period.

    Post # 11
    509 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    If he’s ok with it and you’re ok with it I say go for it. Shower coitus would result in your flow being temporarily haulted so it wouldn’t be as messy.

    Post # 12
    390 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    When i have my period Fiance and I just have sex in the shower but i dont have a heavy flow since im on BC

    Post # 13
    2 posts
    • Wedding: December 1969

    A lot of people say that by the time the wedding and reception are over they are too tired to have sex anyways.

    I think it is something that you have to decide for yourself.  If it feels right, go for it, and if it doesn’t feel right you have the rest of your life to have sex with eachother.


    Post # 14
    1088 posts
    Bumble bee

    talk to him again and ask if he’d still want to do it, and your wedding is in 2 days, how long does your period last? this is probably Too Much Information as well but with mine only the first 2 days are really bad ( a lot of blood) I had my period on my wedding day, I was so mad as well since my period wasn’t even supposed to come but we still did it anyway.. my husband wasn’t grossed out or anything but i guess each guy depends.

    Post # 16
    5993 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    how many days does your period last for? day 3 is usually my end so you might be in luck and find its not a problem – goodluck!

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