(Closed) Getting more and more neurotic by the minute

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Ok, I think that your job is really putting this in your brain even more than it needs to be lol.

Just hold tight, he seems to really be thinking this through and just wanting it to be at the right time. He may want to do it when you least expect it (which sounds very hard to time out because you are always expecting it ha ha ha)

I am an overthinker too. It sucks, I think it’s just how we are and we obsess over these things but we need to just remember that some things we have no control over, and we need to control ourselves to not put any pressure on the guys because that’s not the right way to get proposed to – by force. It’s going to happen, he sounds like a legit guy. Just give him the time he needs.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

They say that expectation is the root of disappointment, so instead of thinking “this is it,” when an occasion rolls around, tell yourself “it probably isn’t it,” and move on. You know you’ll be getting engaged within a certain range, and I think it just becomes really rough if you keep expecting something that never comes to fruition. Maybe it’s easier said than done, but this tactic really helped to keep me in check.

Now that I know I’ll be engaged next weekend at the very latest, I find myself doing that even more.

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