good to know I am not the only one with worries, although my hubby tells me not to stress, people get pregnant when they are least stressed
I got married late, I am now 39 married goin gon 5 months; we saw a specialist one day after the honeymoon and it overwhelmed us, we had tests one after the other, told I had to take hormone shots; then one day we visited my brother and our cousin couldnt make it becuase she had some spotting and was found to be pregnant at age 42, making her a mom at age 43; we are both Catholic and apprehensive about thinking of IVF without giving it adequate time; but starting IVF one week after we got married was a bit much to take and when we heard my cousins story we took it as a sign to slow down and enjoy our life together for a bit; we were long distance quite a bit and didnt even give it adequate time just to try things naturally
I moved to England two months ago, so one month was inhibited by family being in town for the wedding; couldn’t have nookie with family in the next room; then we had one month together, we were apart for the next month while my hubby got settled in England , then for two months I had a horrible time adjusting to a new life in England so the babymaking activities weren’t exactly happening; so now everytime, I get my periods ,we try to go at it like rabbits next cycle; the pressure is on because my hubby came form a small family, mine was big, and he wants a big family
here’s to everyone hoping for a healthy baby; I think society has been kind women are able to have careers now, but it’s a double edged sword I delayed my settling down and I am just hoping and praying it’s not late. Deep down, I know everything will work out, but it doesnt help my fears.
So, yes, I worry, I dont want to wait too late for IVF, but we really hope to conceive the good oldfashioned natural way. Well, time will tell, it’s a whole new field out there nowadays a lot of ethics involved, we dont believe in termination either when the doc we visited asked if termination was an option, usually they may implant 4 eggs and then terminate the embryos that are found abnormal.
So, now everytime, my period is done we got at it like rabbits everyday til the next time I get my period. Best wishes to everyone here.