(Closed) Getting really discouraged about hair

posted 4 years ago in Beauty
Post # 2
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2317 posts
Buzzing bee

You need to relax. It is just hair and your hair does not define you.  You should never cry over hair. Stop obsessing over the color for the rest of the month and decide what to do for your wedding look at the beginning of October and then make the appropriate appointments to make it happen.    If you continue to keep dying and styling you will end up with damaged hair and that is worse than a poor color choice. At the end of the day it’s just hair on your head; and what is really important is not what’s on your head but what is in it. 

Post # 3
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31 posts
Newbee

If you aren’t hapy then that is all  that matters.  Throw money at  the problem if you can to get it fixed. As a long time hair dyer,  you  can just kep getting it  done until you like it.. Last time i was in the  salon a woman was in there for 6 hours geting her hair re-dyed. Dont worry about ruining your hair, supermodels get their’s dyed every  week and theirs is fine. After the weddng you can  give it a break.. Other option  is hair  extensions.. Find another person, and just go. 

Post # 4
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37 posts
Newbee

I’d honestly say give it a bit of time, you might love it in a little bit, if not then get it dyed at the beginning of October, either way it will still look how you want it for your wedding. No point in wasting money if you don’t have to.

Post # 5
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489 posts
Helper bee

I agree with the PP. Give it some time and give it a chance to grow on you. Maybe you’ll end up liking it more. I’ve had that initial shock many times after having a color change. You said it looks pretty when worn down. Have you considered doing a down or half down/up style for your wedding? You also said that there is a bright patch that doesn’t look right. Is it brassy from the bleach not taking? That would be an easy fix for your stylist to fix just that one piece. I’m not really sure I’m envisioning it correctly though. Could you possibly post a picture? You might be able to get better advice that way. 😊

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