(Closed) getting stressed!!

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3267 posts
Sugar bee

@Radiochicky: Unfortunately, it is common for people to be boors and not reply.

What you need to do is recruit your family and FI’s family and yourselves and call people who haven’t replied yet.  Get a firm answer from them.  If you have less then 100 at the dinner then so be it.  Etiquette does not support B-lists.

Post # 4
1474 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

You need to call people and find out yourself if they’re coming.

Post # 6
1843 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I agree with the others – you need to contact everyone you haven’t received an RSVP from and find out if they’re coming.  Surprisingly, most of the RSVPs we didn’t receive actually ARE coming (or said they are).  I wouldn’t assume anything – make contact with everyone and let them know you haven’t received their RSVP and need an answer by (enter date).  We only had a few that we had to make contact with more than once (and those were the ones who ended up saying no).

I would not invite “B list” guests at the last minute – I would be offended if someone did that to me (oh, now I’m good enough to attend?)

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