- 10 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
OMG! I am a bride.
(1) I did not send my wedding party invites because I know they’ll be there. However, I will give them the extras for keepsakes. So I don’t think that is a big deal. My matron was not planning on bringing her husband, and neither was my bridesmaid. My matron sees this as a vacation, and my Bridesmaid or Best Man and her husband are separated.
(2) I do think it was kind of rude to her not to invite your fiance’!!
(3) and (4) WTF…Are you kidding me?????
(5) I want my BMs to wear their hair up, but they can get it done at their salon, it doesn’t matter to me. $200, what?????!!!!!! What kind of hairdo is that??
In essence, you’re not losing your mind. I would just drop out of the wedding. If it’s too late to do that, then after the wedding…..I would probably keep my distance.