(Closed) Getting tired of the wait

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
801 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I’m sorry. It must be so hard to be led on like that! 

I don’t have any good advice either…

But hang in there!!

Post # 4
1278 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

ahh that is frustrating! I know how you feel because my boy went through something similar to this. He felt I was nagging when I hadnt even brought it up, he also felt like ‘what is the rush?’

But all I can say is he will get there eventually…keep yourself busy, work on your own things and itll  happen.

Post # 5
1326 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I wish I had some words of wisdom, but I don’t. I’m in the same situation. We went ring shopping back in August and I’m still waiting!! Some days are harder than others, especially when I hear news of another friend who is getting engaged. 

I’m trying to keep busy, and stay positive about everything. I know he wants to get married, it just gets so frustrating when I try to figure out WTF he’s waiting for. 

Post # 6
30 posts

Did anything happen between the time he said you could tell your family and friends then said he didn’t want to make you a part of his problems? That would explain the hesitation a little. I know what you’re going through, my boyfriend and I have been together for awhile now and were not engaged yet. Our matter is more of finance, since we want to move back to the states to get married (he’s Aussie and I moved here for him,) but I still get the frustration! He obviously wants to marry you since he’s already said that, so it’s weird that he hasn’t asked yet. Maybe he has the ring and is just waiting for the perfect time:) at the end of the day, if you both love each other just be confident in that! I know many friends who were getting irritated that they weren’t engaged, then their so popped the question! If you truly want to spend your life with him and believe it will happen, then just wait it out! It’ll come when you’re least expecting πŸ™‚

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