(Closed) Getting tired of the wait…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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13251 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I wish I had some advice for you.  If it’s meant to be, it’ll happen. 

I used to ask Fiance all the time when he was going to ask, and when I finally stopped, he started the process on his own.  Try (as hard as it is) to put it out of your mind for a while and just enjoy being together!

Post # 4
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1695 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@rattlesnake:  I agree with PP.  I KNOW it’s hard, because I felt that way for awhile too.  But try not to focus too much on it so that it ruins the wonderful moments you have with each other. 

Post # 5
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203 posts
Helper bee

@rattlesnake: sorry it’s so difficult for you, but I agree with the other Bees.  He’ll do it when he’s ready, not if feels pushed into it, which it appears he thinks is happening.

There’s no denying it, waiting IS tough, but if you keep your mind/time occupied (on other matters), you’ll get through it that much easier.

Now’s the time to focus on you. Have you any hobbies (or friends you could start a hobby with)? This will not only help occupy your mind, but show him you’re not as obsessed by the thought of marriage as he thinks you are. It’s a sensitive subject for him and I’m afraid raising it before he’s ready will only have the opposite effect.

Good luck.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@rattlesnake:  I know its so frustrating!! I totally feel where your coming from Im in the same boat waiting….sigh. I honestly hope both our SO purpose soon.

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