(Closed) getting tired of this game..

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

How long have you two been together?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Three years isn’t too too long to be together and wanting an engagement. It’s certainly a long amount of time to be together, but don’t rush an engagement. It doesn’t need to happen sooner than later, unless you’ve given him an ultimatum. If he has the ring, give him time to know that he wants to marry you for sure instead of making him feel pressured so much that he may regret it. 

When Fiance proposed to me, he didn’t even have a ring! We got it about 7 months later. You two are together; that’s all that matters. The engagement won’t really change that.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@countrygirl12:  Aww, sorry hun. Its really not fair for them to embarass you and make you feel stupid for wanting to be   engaged! Very hurtful. Have you told him how you feel about the situation? Like…exactly what you told us here? If he has the ring then what in God’s name is the holdup??? If you haven’t already, you should a conversation about this and how his family is making you feel. 

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I wouldn’t talk about it with his family anymore. Just act cool about it, like it doesn’t bother you and they will quit eventually. You feed them the material they are looking for. They want you to get excited so they can tease you. The engagement will happen, but you just need to stop showing and telling them ideas. If they ask, shut them down by saying you don’t have anything to say on the issue.

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