(Closed) getting too anxious and frustrated…Need advice!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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665 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

you can tell them, thats what i’m doing. you want to enjoy the experience and the best way is to beging planning and give yourself more time. Just tell them you guys have started talking about things and this is what you have in mind. I mean either way, ring or no ring, you know whats coming. He might just be waiting for something and you don’t want to ruin his plans – I ruin everything because of my impatience! But thats why he loves me!! I know your feelings though, it’s coming and the moment needs to be right for him.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

I would definitely tell him and hold off on the planning. Unless you’re planning a very short engagement or know of a certain vendor you just have to have that you’ll need to book ASAP. 

Also, I’ve been dress shopping and noticed the first place they almost always (try to discreetly) look is your hand. Not saying it’s right, just saying it happens. 

 

Post # 7
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4014 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@echolove:  WOOOO Date Twin!!

Talk to your SO about how you are feeling! If you and your SO know the proposal is near then book the important things if you need to! Nothing wrong with planning ahead. You have plenty of time for the smaller things as you go, enjoy the process.

Post # 8
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665 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

oh yeah i can see the dilema now, well maybe call your loved venues and vendors to see how much time you need to book or how quickly they are booked, some need alot of time so you could tell Future Fiance you need to start booking bc the vendors said so lol, i hope im making sense.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Friday September 2012 is a perfect day to get engaged!!! I mean he has the ring, you both know you’re going to say yes… let’s get on with it already!!!

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