GF snoops, BF sets up fake proposal.

posted 4 months ago in Relationships
  • poll: If you were the GF, would you dump him?
    Yes; a fake proposal is cruel. : (36 votes)
    48 %
    No; I deserved the wake up call. : (22 votes)
    29 %
    Yes; NOT because of his fake proposal set up. Snooping is a sign of a greater issue. : (12 votes)
    16 %
    Other - commenting now! : (5 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 47
    Member
    1722 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2019

    I don’t really use reddit, so I don’t  understand how reading posts that are public is snooping? I wouldn’t love my fiancé reading my posts on here, but I accept that it is a potential risk of public posts. It’s pretty different than snooping through texts or emails in my opinion. 

    She shouldn’t have lied after though. That said… knowing a proposal is coming can be expensive between dress and nails… not to mention embarrassing if she told people. It’s a dirty trick to play on someone you love. 

    Post # 48
    Member
    1172 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    strawberrysakura :  I don’t think I’m allowed to link to another forum as per the Bee’s TOS. The post is easy to find, just google the title on the screenshot. After that, I just clicked on his username and hit load more comments. He hasn’t posted much under that user account. The two informative things were about the ring being one he bought for an ex and that piece I posted.

    bibliophilacticbee :  His thinking is that she wouldn’t have known his reddit username if she hadn’t snooped into his DMs. So her knowing his username at all proves that she snooped that one time he left his ipad to go shower, which it does not because she could have figured out his name from a few sources but whatever. I agree, following posts your significant other makes on a public forum (whether that’s the Bee, Reddit, or social media) is not snooping.

    Post # 49
    Member
    880 posts
    Busy bee

    franklymydearidont :  Thank you! I found the updates. 

    Honestly I think he sounds like a dbag from his responses. She shouldn’t be snooping, but he shouldn’t be going nuclear. Ridiculous on both sides. 

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