(Closed) Ghettoness at the Wedding

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2292 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

I don’t think it would be inappropriate to mention to your cousin, and to perhaps have your parents mention to the G-Family parents, that  budget constraints/size of the venue/what have you place some real limits on your guest list and so you just can’t invite everyone you would really like to be there.  Blah blah blah etc.  Especially you can perhaps explain to your cousin that the various adult kids of the family she stays with are some of the people you have not been able to accomodate – just so she knows and doesn’t feel as if she put her foot in her mouth talking to them about the wedding as if she assumed they were coming or something.  Everybody should get the hint, I would hope.

Post # 4
179 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2008

We had to do this with parents friends and jist said – we had to cut back on kids (no matter the age). As long as the only kids are family members I don’t see why you would look hypochitical. And explain to your parents to abide by these "rules"

Post # 5
136 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

Wasn’t this originally posted on the knot ages ago? I think I remember it…


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