- 6 years ago
So this may be a long story, but I must hear others’ opinions….
My FH & I have been dating for almost 2 years. He’s 20 and I’m 19. We plan to get married when he’s 22 and I’m 21. Anyways…
He’s had some pretty psycho ex’s… :/
After two months of dating, one of his ex’s texted me with a picture of him saying he had been cheating on me. My previous relationship was abusive so I still dealt with trust issues, so to say the least I was shocked. I called him and he explained that he hadn’t talked to her since they broke up and that he wasn’t cheating. The picture he sent her that she sent to me was with the same phone he had then, and he explained that he had the phone since before he was with her.
This was all fine & dandy. I prayed about it and felt peace. I felt peace that he hadn’t done anything.
WAYYY down the road, this past November 2011 (we started dating in May of 2010), my mother (strangely) and I get an email from his Facebook account. He was sitting next to me the moment I got the message so it was very clear that he had been hacked. Inside was a copy-paste convo between “him” and that same ex saying that he made a new Facebook and had been trying to add him on it. My boyfriend said that he didn’t say any of those things, and that he hadn’t made a new FB.
My parents flipped out and my mom screamed that he was a cheating, lying blank blank blank. Anyways, I defended him and he defended himself by coming over to talk to my father. In the end, both my parents said they trusted him & every thing was fine.
“Fine”. My mom has seemed weird ever since, especially since I’ve mentioned possibly being engaged in the next year or so. I have no idea what to do or say to her… but I honestly feel that my FH is truthful! It’s just SO shady that someone has emailed us with these convos!
I personally got another email from his Myspace account (hacked again) after he had deleted his FB out of frustration with the incident. The messages in the convo were harmless and then otherwise ignored.
I am so confused..