(Closed) Gift for BM that backed out?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

So what’s your question? I think it’s a lovely idea. It’s not like she backed out in the beginning and you even said yourself she had good reason to, so it doesn’t seem like you are pissed about it. I think flowers and a card would be nice. What do you plan on getting the rest of your girls?

Post # 4
1755 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I don’t think it’s crazy at all.  If her reason was good for backing out and she threw you a lovely shower, then I think a gift would be appropriate 🙂

Post # 5
429 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I think that is very sweet! I see no reason why you shouldn’t gift her. I don’t know that I’d do flowers, but maybe find something sentimental and personal she can keep for awhile!

Post # 6
467 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

i think that’s a great idea – it shows that youre relationship with her is still strong, and shows that youre a good friend – go for it.

Post # 7
3254 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You could always just give her what you are giving the rest of the girls. It sounds like she had a reason for backing out that you respect, and she has been there for you through the wedding preparation process. 

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