(Closed) gift for BMs at shower?

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
276 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think it’s really up to you.  I am planning on giving my BMs their gift during the bridal luncheon a few days before the wedding.  But I’m not sure if you’re talking about the actual Bridesmaid or Best Man gift or just a "thank you" for putting on the shower.  I don’t think there’s anything that says you HAVE to, but I think it would be okay if you did.  Defnitely a nice gesture!

Post # 4
2641 posts
Sugar bee

I think it depends on what you feel is easiest.  I you are planning on giving them a gift for the shower, is it easiest to purchase something and givie to them while they are all with you?  (Maybe you’re unlikely to see them again before the rehearsal.) Or is there too much on your plate to have this all put together for the shower?  (maybe an extra week or so would be less stressful.) 

Either way you do it, I think what’s important is the thank you.  It will be warmly received.

Post # 5
246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I think this one is completely up to you, and what you feel most comfortable doing!  I think giving each of your BMs is a lovely gesture, and that they would be very touched if you were to do that….but I don’t think it’s something that you HAVE to do.  I plan on giving each of my girls one big gift/a bunch of little gifts right before the wedding as a thank you for everything….shower, bachelorette, being an attendant, and mostly being an incredible friend.  I will definitely send them all heartfelt thank you notes after all the the big events like the b-party and the shower!  Hope this helps! 

Post # 7
652 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

i got all my girls a gift when they put together my shower for me

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