(Closed) Gift ideas for a friend who's down…

posted 4 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
291 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

This might not be the most popular idea but.. here goes it!

I send 

1) A card 

2) Make a funny youtube video for her to tell her how much I miss her and how much I love her

3) MONEY- I think money goes a long way because IMO, especially if she’s struggling with school, she probably just doesn’t have enough. Any thoughtful thing that you might get her might not help her as much as cash. I actually tend to give cash gifts more to friends that I know could really really use it and my DIY video+ card= the thoughtful parts πŸ™‚


Post # 4
5475 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Send her “Girls Night in a Box”… stock it with a movie or two, some popcorn, candy, chocolate, and something like bubble bath or a candle.  Tell her you’d love to have a ladies night with her if you were closer, but since you can’t, you are sending one to her πŸ™‚


Also, you sound like a really sweet friend!

Post # 5
678 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

iTunes card- new music = new outlook on life!

I got the sweetest package from a long-distance friend this year- scented candle, fancy bar of soap, a few small pieces of fudge… just some little things to brighten my day.

That’s very thoughtful of you!

Post # 6
139 posts
Blushing bee

Flowers! They always cheer me up, and who says they have to only come from romantic partners?! 

I’m sure she will appreciate anything you think of, its really is always the thought that counts, especially when distance is involved. πŸ™‚

Post # 7
1979 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@FutureMrsT1221:  My Fiance and I are LDR right now, so I ordered pizza to my house and his house at the same time while we had a skype date so we could have dinner “together.” What does she like? flowers? sweets? movies? music? I also made a Happy Birthday video for a friend once- I contacted all her close friends and asked them to send me videos wishing her a happy birthday, so I edited them all together- she loved it and knew how many people cared about her even though they were far away!

Post # 8
784 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@FutureMrsT1221:  I would send flowers and chocolates – a little indulgance to let her know she’s loved. 

Post # 9
773 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Gold Hill Gardens

I ordered a bracelet from an etsy seller to be inscribed with a quote from Harry Potter (from Dumbledore about finding happiness even at the darkest of times if one only remembers to turn on the light). It’s on the inside of the bracelet, hidden so only she can see it πŸ™‚

Post # 11
1774 posts
Buzzing bee

Maybe sending her out for a day? Something relaxing she can do on her own, maybe? Mani/pedi? Facial? Massage? Just a nice soak somewhere?

Flowers are definitely a good one.


A gift card to a restaurant so you can ‘buy’ her dinner for a night she doesn’t have time to cook?

Post # 12
773 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Gold Hill Gardens

@FutureMrsT1221:  BerkeyDesigns and it was $30. Highly recommend them! They have a bunch of options for you to choose from and were easy to communicate with and shipped it to her quickly!


edit: added the link to the store.

Post # 14
658 posts
Busy bee

I’ve been through some hard times before and what cheered me up the most was anything that reminded me how loved/missed/cared for I was… It helps you not only in the moment that you receive the gift but also after that because you can revisit it/look at it/rewatch it/think about the sentiment behind it any time… whereas a massage (for example) has most of its benefits over a day or two. I think a massage or something spa-like would good if she’s just stressed, but if she needs a emotional pick-me-up, I’d suggest a positive and heartfelt message, delivered in whatever medium you think she’d like. When I was down, my friend made me something that was very symbolic of how much she missed me and of our friendship, and I still treasure it 10 years later.

Post # 15
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I think flowers are great. They’re easy to order and make you feel all special! 

Post # 16
191 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@FutureMrsT1221:  agree with pp’s a massage would ALWAYS cheer me up!  and if someone got me a bubble bath kit AND a new book I’ve been dying to read I would be in heaven!!! Just go by what she likes!

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