(Closed) gifting bridemaids their hair day-of, is that enough?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Is hair the day-of a good gift?
    Yes, it's fine. : (10 votes)
    24 %
    No, you need something more. : (32 votes)
    76 %
    Other, I'll explain below. : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    852 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I think it’s great if you want to pay for their hair, but I’d also give them something more personal, that isnt’ related to your wedding.

    Post # 4
    1154 posts
    Bumble bee

    If I was a bridesmaid I would not choose to get my hair done.  So having the bride pay for something I wouldn’t choose would not to my mind be a gift to me – it is not for my benefit it is for the benefit of the bride.  I feel like you should get them something that they’ll enjoy that’s purely for them.

    But it does not have to be expensive, just something sweet and cute, flasks? 

    Post # 5
    3709 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I voted no…it’s not enough. IMO, if the bride wants the BMs to have a certain hairstyle or done by a certain stylist, she SHOULD pay. I wouldn’t consider that a gift. You don’t have to break the bank purchasing gifts but I think that something personal that they can use after your wedding would be nice.

    Post # 6
    2641 posts
    Sugar bee

    I agree with the others.  You didn’t exactly say if you are making them get their hair done or if they all happened to choose it.  If they chose it, I’d say you are in a better position to make that a gift.  However, if you are insisting, then you should pay out of obligation.


    Post # 8
    1154 posts
    Bumble bee

    In that case especially I think something inexpensive will be great.  I’m actually not a fan of inexpensive jewelry – but many people are.  But maybe bead bracelets?

    Etsy has some super cute clutches that aren’t expensive.  Or I love the idea of flasks, polyvor has these adorable colored ones. 

    Post # 9
    171 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012



    If you’re looking for something unique– My brother makes cute clutches out of lifesavers! She puts a barrier on them so you can use them and not worry about getting them wet, etc– this si what I’m giving my BMs…they’re just tooo cute!


    I can send you a pic if you’re interested! 🙂

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