Post # 1
I’ve been invited to a wedding I am not attending. I plan to send my regrets and a gift. The other day I was invited to the bridal shower for the same wedding, which I cannot attend either. Do I send a separate gift for that also?
Post # 3
I would just send one gift. I wouldn’t do one for the shower and wedding if you aren’t attending.
Post # 4
I would not, but some very generous people do.
Post # 5
When I can’t attend a shower, I usually send a gift. BUT.. if you also can’t attend the wedding, I think one gift is more than enough.
Post # 6
I would just send one gift. I honestly didn’t expect a gift from anyone who didn’t attend wedding or shower.
Post # 7
I was taught that if you are invited to the wedding, you send a gift whether you attend or not. For showers, you don’t have to send a gift if you don’t attend. That’s what I do, except in rare cases (I have another thread about someone I barely know inviting me to the wedding, I don’t think I am going or sending a gift) or for showers where I am close to the person but unable to make it.