(Closed) Gifts for Underaged Groomsmen

posted 3 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 2
92 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

No help here! I’m looking for suggestions too sinve my brother is underage as well (he’s 14).

Post # 3
9567 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2018

Maybe a nice wallet? Or tickets/vouchers to a sports game?

Post # 4
582 posts
Busy bee

What does he like? Hobbies? General interests? Men under 21 are a pretty diverse group.

Post # 5
6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

What about a nice pocket watch?  We gave them to our GM’s who had about 5 flasks each from other weddings anyway.  

Post # 6
12633 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Is he close to 21?  I’d just give him the flask anyway. 

Post # 7
7123 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

What would you get him for his birthday?

We got my brother a nice journal/notebook and pen because he writes a lot and a gift card to Best Buy but I don’t know that this would work for everyone.

Post # 8
45659 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

The reality is most men never use those flasks anyway, so he won’t be missing out on anything.

I suggest an itunes gift card, or something to do with one of his sports or hobbies.

Post # 9
1247 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - San Francisco, CA

Belt? Watch?


Giftcard is impersonal but honestly a great option. I wish I got more of those lol.

Post # 10
3049 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I’d suggest buying individual gifts for everyone. Would you buy the older groomsmen flasks as a Christmas or birthday gift? If not, I’d keep shopping for everyone. The gifts don’t have to match and you know your brother’s interests better than we do. 

Post # 11
2841 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

CMH2236:  We gave my bro (who is 15) a wooden handled Swiss Army with his last name engraved on it.  We actually gave that to all of our GM– but it also worked for him.

I did run it by my dad, just in case– being that it has a knife– but my bro is super responsible and definitely was allowed to recieve that.

Post # 12
3281 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Two of FI’s groomsmen aren’t 21 but they’ll probably still get flask. FI got 2 flasks in two weddings he was in before 21. If you want to do something different you could do an engraved mug, pocket knife, or something more personal depending on what he likes

Post # 15
1066 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

We are giving the Junior Groomsmen who will be 11 or 12 at the time, a pocket knife just like the ones the adult groomsmen will be getting (the handle is deer antler, the deer was hunted on a family property which is in a family trust so will be around for generations to come, we liked incorporating that family tradition in it)  We already spoke to his dad and he said that’s fine, they will take it from him and give it back to him when he is old enough. 

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