- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2009
Really odd question. So I got an email from a cousin out in CO asking me if I received the gift she sent 3 weeks ago – she said she was just wondering because I hadn’t mentioned anything or sent a thank you. She felt bad for even asking, but wanted to make sure I received it. Well…I haven’t. So I checked my registry, and there are about 7 items that are ‘fulfilled’ that I haven’t received. So already in freak-out mode b/c the wedding is less than 2 months away, I am wondering who else got me a gift that I haven’t said thank you to!
So this past weekend I went out with one of my BM’s to her parents’ house, she was acting kinda funny towards the end of the weekend – not mad but just off. So I was thinking today what if she got me a gift off the registry and was mad I didn’t say thank you?!? My shower was 2 weeks ago and I knew she couldn’t go – but she hadn’t sent anything and didn’t give me anything this weekend so I sent her the following email – was it rude? I wasn’t trying to be – I just do not want to seem ungrateful at all!! And if she didn’t get me a gift – no big deal – I just don’t want her to think I can’t say thanks or whatever.
<span style=”font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;”>”I have totally awkward and random question – did you happen to get me something from my registry for my shower? My cousin out in CO said she sent me something from there, but since it has been over 3 weeks and I haven’t mentioned it or sent a thank-you, she just wanted to check with me to see what was going on. So I checked my registry and saw that there are more things on there that are ‘fulfilled’ but I haven’t gotten. I’m totally going to feel like a sh_thead if people have bought me stuff that I have yet to get, and they think I’m not saying thank you or sending out a thank you. So if you did – I apologize for not saying thank you this weekend in person and if not, nevermind! 🙂 Totally random, I know – and sorry for even asking – but like I said, I feel bad if people think I’m ungrateful!!