(Closed) Girls gone wild… are you SERIOUS?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

It’s not acceptable!!! Sorry, I have no advice, but I’ve got tons of support for you! Stand strong, that’s just gross of him!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

sounds like his young and single friends are influencing him in a negative way. I think he is struggling with the fact that he should no longer be doing all the same things that young single guys do. Sounds like there are some deeper issues here if he is calling you “boring” and “retarded”. You should sit down and have a long discussion with him about how you are feeling and why he feels this way.

and no, I DO NOT think that anyone should be going to girls gone wild (much less a married guy with a child, so innappropriate)

best of luck with this! I know your feelings are really hurt right now.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

You are not overreacting and I would feel the same way. Not cool!

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper

… I actually ended up at a club once where they were filming. (It was TOTALLY by accident and we had NO idea they were there until we walked in.)

Personally… I dont think I would let him go. A strip club is one thing, those girls are professionals and they have boundaries. From what I saw, the girls at that club did not have any qualms doing whatever. It was INSANE. There were naked chicks running around, chicks flashing their girl-parts to the crowd, some dude getting a BJ on the patio, not to mention that there were drugs all over. The GGW scene in a nightclub is soooo not cool.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

Yikes… girls gone wild at a night club is a completely inappropriate place for married man with a child to be hanging out.  I do agree that his reaction is probably coming from the fact that his younger unmarried friends are giving him a hard time about his wife not wanting him to go.  But that’s not an acceptable excuse.  It’s not OK for your husband to basically be name calling.  When he is home and you are together, let him know how his words and attitude make you feel and hope you can have an adult conversation about it.

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