(Closed) Girls I need you… :( {kinda long}

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Totally confused… that wasn’t actually his ex wife, was it? And how was it sexual?

Don’t be upset… you’ve got an exciting time right ahead of you! Don’t let the stress and silliness get to you!

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

I totally know how you feel! Our Best Man is planning the bachelor party and he is single and works at a strip club as a bouncer. Yes I’m not happy and I’m so sick of hearing about the last night for his freedom too. He has a two year old and we have been together for three years. He had his freedom a LONG time ago!

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

Oh sweetie I think your nerves are acting up ((HUGS)) he went to hooters you know, not a strip club or anything like that. I think that guys’ ideas of having fun are completely different than girls’ ideas. Hooters is actually a restaurant that families eat out. I think it was pretty mild and I don’t think that he nor the guy that arranged it broke any rules that you asked them too.  I also think that perhaps the waitress was completely out of order but it was still just in good fun.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

That’s the part I’m confused about… it’s not some special kind of Hooters, is it? Because it’s really just a wings restaurant, and the girls are sometimes cute, but they’re not strippers or hookers, you know? You have nothing to worry about! His friends are just silly, that’s all.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Aww I think you’re just feeling emotional because your wedding is so close!!  But it will be okay!  Your fiance was honest with you, and although that is kinda an irking thing to say, I’m pretty sure it was just a crappy joke.  I totally agree about that “last night of freedom” crap.  But I think it’ll be okay because it sounds like he’d rather have been with you anyway, he’s texting you at his bachelor party!!  ๐Ÿ™‚  Feel better and try not to worry too much!

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Okay, nooooowww I get you. Is he upset? If he isn’t, let it slide. It really is just a silly guy thing and it’s not like they were naked “boobies”, so who cares? And if he is… let him deal with his friends about it. Follow his cues there. I do think your nerves are just getting to you and making this seem worse than it is.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I’ve eaten at Hooters, and although the food isn’t too impressive, I can assure you that it really isn’t the same as a strip club.  You are served mediocre food by women in skimpy outfits that do cover all of the important parts.  I was having a bit of a hard time following your narrative, but if the worst thing your Fiance consented to was eating at Hooters (even if the waitress was drawing attention to them) then I would recommend that you drop it.  You are absolutely right that the mentality behind bachelor parties is stupid, but you should pick your battles and as long as your Fiance doesn’t actually do anything inappropriate you should drop it.

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I’m sorry you are so upset.  I get where you are coming from too, that last night of freedom thing is just complete crap, an excuse to act foolish.  Try to calm down, and gear up for the wonderful things you have in store. 

Sometimes great guys have total jerks as friends, who insist upon doing whatever they want.  The friend may have really not intended any harm.  You can’t control what has already transpired just relax and take pleasure in your bright future with you FH. 

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