(Closed) Girls who LIE about their E-Rings!

posted 6 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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812 posts
Busy bee

That’s awful! Why would you do that??? Sounds like she’s embarrassed by her ring, how horrid

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

It’s silly that she feels the need to do that, but I wouldn’t call her on it.  Clearly she’s insecure and feels the need to lie about her ring.  I’d forget about it and focus on how exciting it is that you’re getting your ring soon.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

She is probably sensitive about the origins of her ring and offers that before anyone can ask where he bought it. I would let it go and not consider it a slight towards you. 

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

That’s really wierd. I’m not sure if anyone has ever lied to me about their ring. Honestly if they feel the need to lie, maybe it’s an insecurity. It’s not hurting anyone so I wouldn’t say anything to embarrass her. 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I don’t think it’s that big a deal. It’s a little odd that she wouldn’t stick to the same story for everyone, but whatevs. No skin off your back.

Post # 8
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2981 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

She’s insecure about what people may think about her behind her back if she tells them it’s a Nexus Lab created stone….as if anyone would give a hoot. I’d just smile and nod and silently feel kinda bad for her ways of thinking. 

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

While it’s nobody’s business where anyone’s ring’s from, if you go the sim route, if you don’t feel confident about your decision, then you should probably choose something else.  I find the need to lie about it just odd.

Post # 10
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2759 posts
Sugar bee

Eh, some people are just insecure and tell wild stories about things to impress others. Honestly, I wouldn’t let it bother you or mention it – it’s bad enough she feels the need to lie, and she really isn’t hurting anyone but herself in the long run.

Post # 11
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Bumble Beekeeper

I’ve personally never run into anyone who’s lied about their e-ring, no.  Maybe she’s insecure about it, or maybe she likes being “mysterious”?  Who knows!  I wouldn’t mention it, either.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

To be honest, I do get offended when anyone asks about my ring (cut, where they got it, how much Fiance paid, etc.). It is none of your business. And she may feel pressure to lie about it since those are, oddly enough, common questions.

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Well… obviously you guys are gossiping about her ring anyway, so can you perhaps see why she’d do it? It’s no one’s business.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@ohmybears48:  Why would you be upset if someone asks about the cut of your ring? I’d be pissed if someone asked me how much Fiance paid tho- I’ve been asked that AND been asked how many carats it was. Rude. Ppl ask all the time where he got it b/c it’s handmade and the goldsmith’s work is recognized in this town so I see that as a compliment. But I never understood where strangers get off asking how much rings cost. 

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Kant:  Heh. Yes, she is not a very good liar, anyway. 🙂

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