(Closed) Girls who waited… how long did it take you to have awesome sex?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 32
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@leebaby711:  Same here for the mismatched partners. 

I had many partners before Darling Husband including my ex-H.  While I used to orgasm with them occasionally, I ALWAYS orgasm with Darling Husband…multiple times and simultaneously….that last part still has me wondering b/c I have never had a simultaneous orgasm before him.  And the sex keeps getting better even 3 years later…we’ve both never experienced that before.  We have toys but rarely use them since it’s just too much….

Post # 33
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 1999

This is a GREAT board. I feel like movies and magazines make women (and men) think that it takes 15 minutes and a woman will end up in pure bliss. I thought there was something wrong with me for quite a bit. And That is NOT the case! There is hope ladies! They say practice makes perfect, and while you might not become an astronaunt by the time you’re out of high school by taking all the astronomy classes available, GOOD sex is possible with practice and trying different things/touching in different places and so on! I have been with my partner for a couple of years now, and our sex doesn’t hit the spot EVERY TIME but it does happen many of the times! Good luck! 

Post # 34
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

We waited and have been married 11 months.  It’s still a learning process!  There’s been plenty of REALLY good times, but sometimes we hit a slump that things are just…okay.  Darling Husband does take anti-depressants, so sometimes that factors in, too.

Post # 35
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

@LittleTiramisu:  You said…

This is a GREAT board. I feel like movies and magazines make women (and men) think that it takes 15 minutes and a woman will end up in pure bliss. I thought there was something wrong with me for quite a bit. And That is NOT the case!

To be truthful there is a lot of misinformation out there…

On average it can take a woman in the range of 30 to 45 minutes to warm up to the point of orgasm (can vary depending on the time of month… or how long since she last did the deed)… but the point is most men don’t want to work this hard, they want what THEY WANT and they want it now.  Which is one of the primary reasons that women end up saying they are sexually frustrated, unfullfilled, or have just plain given up !!

To be honest men are kind of stupid in this regard.. in that IT really isn’t ALL about them… IF they would actually put in the time… they would all have much better sex lives in the long run, because they would have much more willing & enthusiastic parnters

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