- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
I just have a small vent to get out! I’ve attended a few outings with a local Meetup group. There was one I didn’t go to a couple weeks ago, but there was a girl “J” who came and everyone thought she was a little coo coo. Anyway I was interested to meet her this past weekend at another meetup that was going on. It was one of the girl’s birthdays at her place. “J” was there and I introduced myself, and she seemed pretty nice. But then I realized that everytime “J” came to join a conversation, EVERYONE else would get up and leave. They didn’t even do it subtly, they would just get up, mutter an excuse and move somewhere else.
One time I came to join a conversation, and there were 4 girls there including “J.” One person got up to leave and the 2 other girls quickly got up too and snickered that I had to be stuck with her. Well I sat there for about 15-20 minutes chatting, and she didn’t seem too bad at all, in fact, she was pretty nice. I got up to go to the washroom, “J” had moved inside, and when I was done in the washroom I went over there too. Once “J” had left for a smoke, some of the girls apoligized for leaving me with her, saying I was too nice to leave and they felt sorry that I got stuck with her, but they couldn’t handle listening to her anymore.
This happened a few times throughout the night and I was actually getting embarrassed and feeling really sorry for “J”! Everyone was being so obvious, and ya she might be a little different, but I just thought it was so mean how everyone was acting like that to her. 🙁
Anyway I just had to tell someone! I’m not sure that I want to hang out with these girls anymore if they’re treating someone like this…sad.