- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2013
Yes that is I give up and do what I really will like. I feel I don’t and won’t look good in full white solid piece dress. I am short and a bit pudgy.. I have thought and thought and I just want to do a broom skirt dress in aqua/turquoise and find a lace or solid white blouse and have a belt loose around my hips to hid my mid section. I am also wanting to do this so we don’t spend so much money as my honey had a stay in the hospital and that has gotten a bit pricy.
I am going to be making and baking all the food and taking the week of the wedding off to do it all. I am not having a traditional wedding. I just want my hop on pop (my dad, I always call and ask for him this way) to walk me down the aisle and get hitched and then have a blow out bbq and Mexican food afterwards. My parents didn’t have a wedding just the Pastor and in jeans, but honey won’t let me do that lol.
I told him I can wait to get married or just got to the jp but he keeps on just asking to or if I have added some people he is suggesting to the wedding. I dont have much money saved right now but My goal is to at least send a total of $100 for my outfit.
This is the skirt I found and just feel in love with it. I am not a dress person and the only dress I do have in my closet is a broom skrit dress.
This is the buckle I am wanting to use. It was my dad’s (oh wait I took it from him when he quit wearing it and I have used it since.) I just need to find a nice belt to wear with it. The thing is like a 100 years old as it was given to him by a family member. I love the design, and it can go in my winter wedding theme.
I just dont know if I should just go with a solid white shirt if I use the buckle or will a lace patterned shirt be okay.
My honey knows I am having a hard time finding what I would like for a dress and wants me to look nice. I just haven’t told him my decision. I also wonder if finding him a color shirt similar to mine will be good or just a tie to match, and what color shirt and pants. I will need to find my dad some spenders to match if I go with a white shirt. (My New Years Surprise he came down and was wearing some, and yes I popped them like he was wearing a bra.)
So I need some suggestions. The shirt I am looking for I want a scoop neck line or v neck. Like I said I am short a pudgy and I look better in these shirts. I just want to have fun and enjoy my union with my honey.