(Closed) Giving money towards BM dress for 2/5 BMs

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
5273 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Don’t tell the other girls that you are helping the other 2 & I doubt they will mention to them either. I’ve heard of brides doing this all time b/c they want certain friends in the wedding, that may be experiencing financial difficulties, so I think that is very nice of you!!

Post # 4
4046 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I agree, just don’t announce it and ask these two to keep it on the DL that you are helping them out. You can even mention that the other BM’s are having family members buy the dresses, so you want to make things evensies.

Post # 5
3255 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

My cousin was in my wedding, and being that she’s in her first year of college and my other two bridesmaids work full-time and can support themselves, I felt it was appropriate. However, I didn’t tell my other BMs just in case they would feel weird about it. It’s really sweet of you; just don’t broadcast it.

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