(Closed) “Go away or we’re gonna fight” – the hard truth

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Ohhh I have said this many a time to my Fiance. It’s better that he is honest and open with you though I’m sure it bruises the ego every now and then.

 

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Sometimes things like this need to be said to avoid confrontation.  There are times I need a few minutes to myself, but Fiance doesn’t understand.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

Yeah, better he pre-emptively shooed you out of the kitchen before you get mad with one another. Turn your frown upside down by doing something relaxing in the meantime. Read a book. Soak in the tub. Chill out with the fur babies.

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper

I hate being bothered in the kitchen, as does my husband. Whoever is doing the cooking that night has complete power to say “Get the hell OUT of here until I’m done!”

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh my goodness, you guys are our cooking twins! I follow recipes to the T and FH hardly reads them. I get booted from the kitchen regularly. I can’t say that I mind him cooking dinner on his own though 🙂

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

my  bf and I are the same way in the kitchen- he loves to cook and is so creative..I prefer to bake and just “follow” the recipe….to avoid fighting I just let him teach me how to cook more creatively, so that eventually I can wean myself off of recipes!

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I know how you feel, but he did the right thing in saying something before it was a fight.  Darling Husband and I have our own way of telling eachother we need space before strangulation incures.  I will go in and turn down our bed and put his night stuff in the bathroom for him so he can take his shower, he knows that is my signal to go lounge in the bedroom and leave me alone.  I think that you shouldn’t have a bruised ego, you should feel pretty good that you all have this stuff worked out.  Alot of couples don’t and just fight, I think that it shows alot of maturity.

Post # 10
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Hehe… I find this cute more than anything! My Fiance and I both know our way around the kitchen and before anything starts cooking we determine who’s in charge of what… or we both end up with a crummy meal. Most of the time one is ultimatley the leader. We even have similar cooking styles, cooking is just such a personal thing I guess 🙂

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