(Closed) Godparent Requirements for Baptism

posted 4 years ago in Christian
Post # 2
178 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Cupid268:  that’s insane! How do the qualify ‘active members’? Fiance and I are Catholic and do not live together, so we don’t have donation envelopes and give cash, and I haven’t been a communion minister since highschool. There wouldn’t be a record of our attendance, but we go every weekend. I am a godparent to one of my cousins (he is Lutheran), and I didn’t even sign a statement or anything. My brother’s godparents are close family friends. The wife is Catholic and they attend church so my parents assumed that the husband was as well. Turns out he isn’t, but no one caught that until afterwards. I find it hard to believe that they got away with that because the Catholic church is usually quite strict about that sort of thing. But I guess the rules are not closely followed in my area? 

Post # 3
13289 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

One of our local churches also requires either a church wedding  for a married couple, or a single person with no cohabitation, on top of being active members.  It’s hard, because most of our religious friends still didn’t have church weddings.  When it comes time for baptism, it’s going to be rough!

Post # 4
9548 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’d see if their church will write the letter even if they don’t attend very regularly. I know that the requirements for my church are that a member must attend and contribute at least once each year to maintain active member status. But we often keep people as members if they want us to even if they haven’t attended in over a year. So I’d just have your sister and Brother-In-Law ask if their church will write the letter. 

For my church, we’re pretty relaxed about godparents. Basically you just have to agree to provide spiritual guidance to the child. Maybe you have to be baptised, but I’m not even sure about that.

My husband and I are godparents for my best friend’s son and we had to send them information about the Catholic church in which my husband was baptised and confirmed, but they were okay with me not being Catholic, since he was (though he is now a member of my church, but we just didn’t mention that). 

Post # 5
8679 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I was not baptized until I was 12 because my parents were not considered active members of the catholic church, even though they both attended catholic schools and went to church 6 days a week for most of their lives. That kind of thing really annoys me. Needless to say I was baptized at a Lutheran church and I don’t recall them having any sort of restrictions on the god parents.

Post # 6
402 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I am Lutheran, and I just became a godparent to my cousin’s three children.  Her sister was also a co-godparent with me.  Of all the baptisms I witnessed over the years in the church, a LOT of the godparents were not members of our church.  I have no idea if they were members anywhere!  The important thing is to get the child baptized.  It is a right we all have.  Regular attendance is nice, though, since the godparents are the ones who are responsible for the child’s religious upbringing if anything should happen to the parents.

Post # 7
2191 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

have them talk to a local church – many times all they need to do in order to get this letter is make a donation to the church to show that they are ‘members’

some churches are more strict and require married couples to be married in the church, letter from parish and a month of “sunday school” like classes…. some are less and don’t ask a lot of questions (or just make the baby’s parents go to the classes/give donation)

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