- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2017
A bit bummed. I know i should be supportive but i’m bummed that my plans are being pushed back again. here comes the long back story.
SO told me yesterday that he absolutely hates his job and is going back to school. I’m happy for him but this will likely push back our plans on moving. I summer schooled two summers in a row to graduate a year early. I will be graduating this april 2013 and hopefully I can land a full time administrative job with the hospital i work at since their expansion is scheduled for completion in march 2013.
He tells me that he’ll just take classes on his days off (tue-thurs) and still work his full time job (NIGHTSHIFTS FROM 7:30PM-5:30AM fridays-mondays) We argued before about not spending much time together since he spends most of his days sleeping (understandable) and our schedules obviously don’t line up.
Even if we did move out, i’d be replacing his mom and grandma doing his laundry, making his lunches, cleaning etc 🙁 He said he wanted to be engaged within a year and also move out when i graduate and am able to pick up more hours. That probably won’t happen. Oh we’ve been together for almost 2 and a half years and we’re both still young. I’m 20, he’s 24. I suppose it’s better that he goes back to school while he’s young and without children etc etc. But i can’t help but feel bummed. Waiting just got harder.