(Closed) Going crazy, ripping my hair out, stupid invitations!

posted 7 years ago in Paper
  • poll: Am I insane to consider DIY invitations if I am absolutely NOT crafty in any way?
    Yes, it's so hard. : (10 votes)
    42 %
    No, it's so much fun and they look great : (3 votes)
    13 %
    Likely, but you will be happy in the end : (5 votes)
    21 %
    I did it and don't regret it : (6 votes)
    25 %
  • Post # 3
    511 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    @Take The Reins: Do could go the DIY route, but purchase the designs elsewhere.

    Post # 4
    939 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Do you know what style of invitation you want? like something simple such as one card with all the info on it? or something more elaborate?

    I only ask because since you say you don’t do crafts, the more elaborate invitations will most likely require you to buy crafting tools, which might end up costing you more than just buying from someone

    I, too, plan on going the DIY route for my invitations, i have no idea what im doing to end up doing yet though.  The first thing I did was order invitations catalogs so i could flip through them to get an idea of things like i like design-wise, and fold-wise.  Thats where i am right now.  I haven’t picked anything out as of yet.

    If youre not dead set on making your own, i would suggest looking on etsy.com for a artist who would work with you to create an invitation that you like that is in your budget.

    Post # 5
    16 posts
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I thought some of the styles from michaels were cute! We got lucky with our invitations because my fiances mother knows a wedding coordinator or else we would have gone the DIY route too. Most of the kits have templates so they arent that difficult to use. IF you are that stressed though I would just pay to get em done. Davids bridal has cute online invites and they offer a coupon if you get your dress from them. Good luck hun!

    Post # 6
    568 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I am far from crafty and was able to sort of DIY our invites.  I bought the pockets from paperandmore.com.  My boss designed the invite and inserts but there are templates out there you can find and just plug in your own info if you are computer challenged like I am.  We sent the files to catprint.com to have them printed.  I basically had to cut out some papers for the belly band and glue in the invtes and that was it.  It was pretty affordable and fairly easy.  I have been satisfied with both companies we went through.

    Post # 7
    2103 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    You can purchase downloadable designs off of Etsy.com or from a designer. There are even websites like Weddingchicks.com that have free ones that you can customize. (Even the Microsoft Office website has free templates). You would have to print them on your own, though, whether from a home printer, office supply store/printing store (like Kinko’s or Staples), or an online website (like Vistaprint). This is what I plan on doing. Let me know if you need more information.

    Also, you can always semi-DIY. Get them printed from a website like Minted.com, WeddingPaperDivas.com, or Vistaprint and jazz them up with ribbons, stamps, pretty envelopes, and/or a pocketfold.

    It really depends on your comfort level. And also what you have the time, patience, and money for. DIY is not always cheaper, but it can be…and even nicer and more personal.

    Post # 8
    429 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    cardsandpockets.com has some great prices and they also have a printing shop…they used to have their print shop prices listed but then they took it down…i can remember it being very affordable!! i just mailed my DIY invites and almost lost my sanity in the process.

    Post # 9
    489 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Funny that you post this today, but my mom and I just finished my invites today. We both are into cardmaking, so I guess that helps. I designed the invitation and my mom used a template for the wording, then we used rubber stamps for swirls and since I have been using some birds for things, I used a punch for “love birds” and then I also used a punch for the bottom of it. I mounted the piece of white cardstock with the printing and stamps on it on some other cardstock. that’s all I did. My mom and I could have done something more elaborate, but we chose to keep it simple since we were making so many. The items we used were from Stampin Up, which my mom sells, and the quality is awesomel. Depending on what your theme is, you could do something similar, but if you aren’t crafty, you might want to get some help. 

    Post # 10
    1920 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    I am sooo not crafty but am attempting my own invites. There are so many detailed templates and tutorials online that help. I’m sure you will be able to do it.

    Post # 11
    1137 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    We are not crafty people, but we are computer savvy. Nothing at Michaels excited me either, so I knew I had to DIY.

    I ended up buying pocketfolds, but diying the rest of the invites. I found a template I loved in our theme (under the sea), and modified it to fit my liking. Since I purchased the pocketfolds from cards and pockets, I was able to just look at their website to figure out sizing for all my inserts.

    Honestly, it’s not all that difficult. I ordered everything online, and printed it all at home. It took a few tries to line it all up and figure out heights for various cards, and make sure my RSVP fits in the envelope properly, but it all worked out.

    I also used anchor paper for all my paper, and had my card mattings all pre-cut. I cut all my inserts myself though, and used rubber cement to attach them.

    I spent about a week designing it out on the computer and emailing it to our families to review, correct, and do a final approval. I then spent a weekend printing, cutting, and putting everything together. I think I spent about 10-12 hours total on everything, and that includes my design time. My Fiance only helped with gluing the backings to the invite, and then the backings to the pocketfold. Other than that, I did all the cutting and designing, as well as stamping and putting the rest together.

    I’ve had TONS of compliments on my invites from our families and friends. Everyone loved how well they turned out.

    Post # 12
    1401 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I am exactly like you–very picky but HATE crafty stuff (I was that little kid at birthday parties who would ruin her craft project and then cry because she was a perfectionist and her project wasn’t perfect). Fiance and I ended DIY-ing the design by copying someone else’s invite that we both really liked. Fiance is a graphic designer, which helps… 🙂 Then, we found an inexpensive letterpress printer to actually print the invites and inserts so that they didn’t look cheap. We’re getting away with around a $3/invite total cost, including letterpressed invites and 1 insert, envelope liners (also self-designed, then printed and cut through envelopperinc.com) and pretty wrap-around labels (self-designed and printed on envelopperinc.com exacto label paper that matches the liner paper, then having an anal-retentive friend with a paper cutter do the cutting…). We went with the wrap-around label idea because I don’t like the look of white calligraphy on our black envelopes. All in all, it’s turned out to be a pretty stress-free project, aside from the frantic worry of trying to match shades of off-white… kill me now!!! 

    I actually read your post because I was LITERALLY ripping out my hair and saying “stupid invitations!” like 30 minutes ago when I noticed that the label/liner paper color was slightly darker than the invite paper. It’s really not bad–plus, it’s got a black-and-white stripe pattern printed on it–but beware that you’ll start to do what you hate and pick up on those little details without being able to fix them! C’est la vie, eh? Unless you pay $1500 to order a set of 100 invites from a nice company, you’re either going to get cookie-cutter invites that are stress-free or cool/unique invites with a few quirks (and you’ll probably be missing a few handfuls of hair). Your choice!

    Post # 14
    7 posts
    • Wedding: July 2012

    i’m DIY my invites and mainly because I didn’t like any of the cookie cutter invites and paying someone for a custom pocket invite was going to cost me close to $1000 for 150 of them!  So DIY and the internet it was for me!  I love Cardsandpockets.com.  I have ordered a ton of different samples in different colors and paper weights, and envelopes and now know more then I ever wanted to know about invitations!  Their papers and pockets are high quality and they have a ton of beautiful colors available.  They have the insert dimensions on their website for you to help with the sizing question you had, and have pre-cut mats sized for their pocket invites so you don’t need to worry about the measurements for the backings.  Just spend some time checking out all their site has to offer…it might be a little overwhelming at first but since you have the Michael’s invite as a guide for what you want your DIY invite to look like (only better!) it shouldn’t be too hard!   

    Post # 15
    1855 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Take The Reins – I just sent you a PM with instructions on how to DIY your own pocketfolds, plus an additional note at the end (sorry, the PM is REALLY LONG).  Good luck!


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