(Closed) Going to be a long time waiting Bee;)

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2250 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Not asking too much at all! If this is the way you would like your relationship to progress, I think you need to sit him down and have a REAL conversation about it.. don’t let him change the subject! If it is important to you, it should be important to him 🙂

Post # 4
662 posts
Busy bee

If he thinks that marriage is “old fashioned” you might be in for an up hill battle and some severe disappointment. 


I think you need to have a talk with him and see exactly how set on that he is.  My SO said he wasn’t getting married again but now he’s more excited about the engagement than I am.  Sometimes words are just words when you meet the one, but sometimes they are more than that.


You need to let him know how important it is to you, and see where that lands you. 

Post # 5
3624 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I don’t think you’re asking too much, but it sounds like he’s playing games. I think you should either be ok with living as a married couple without officially being married or stop living together until he proposes/marries you.

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