(Closed) Gone so Soon…Too Soon

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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9955 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Aaaah Sweetie… I am sooo sorry for your loss

I have no words…

So I will just send (( HUGS )) your way,

And do know that there are Bees who you can reach out to to chat with anytime you need to (I see that your W-Date is coming up soon)… so understandably it has got to be hard, and the next few months will be an emotional roller coaster for you

 

Post # 4
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2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I am so sorry. I cant even imagine what you must be feeling. I pray that Gods peace be with you and all your family. You sound like you were a very good daughter. 🙂 

Post # 5
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8042 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

I am SO SORRY for your loss!!! *Hugs*

Post # 6
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1762 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Oh my goodness Im so sorry

Post # 7
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200 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

So sorry for your loss.  Big Hugs.  Stay strong. 🙂

Post # 9
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353 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

So sorry.  Best wishes as you begin to heal.

Post # 10
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334 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. I bet it meant a lot to your mom that you spend her last few days with her. It sounds like you brought a lot of comfort to her by being there and were able to show her how much she means to you. I can’t imagine what you’re going through, but know that there’s a whole forum of ladies here for support. You and your family are in my prayers.

Post # 11
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5958 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

I’m so sorry…heros don’t look the way they draw them in books, they’re usually quite ordinary, a little cute looking and called Mom….I’m certain that yours is no exception to that rule, and yet she was exceptional in every way, wasn’t she?

Regardless of what you believe, some things are true, and everything you wanted to say to your mother but couldn’t, she already knew.  The time you wanted to spend with her and didn’t means nothing to her, because it’s the time you were together that counted.

There’s a secret life behind the one we live in, and if you look hard enough, you’ll see signs of her out of the corner of your eye, or hear a song that reminds you of her, a flock of birds lighting from a tree, a book she loved or even looking back at you in the mirror…she’s nearby, and just out of reach, but the love stays the same, and that’s all a person really needs.

Be kind to yourself, allow yourself the grief, whatever that means for you and keep a weather eye on the horizon, your mother is closer than you think.

 

Post # 12
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2023 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Sorry to hear about your loss.  Thoughts and prayers are being sent your way!

Post # 13
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9955 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

TO Nona99:  Simply gorgeous !!

Thank you for finding the words… that I was a loss for.

As someone who is over 50, and see a lot of life (and sadly a lot of death too) EVERYTHING you said is true about this world… no one really dies / fades away completely … they live on in those that loved them… all we do, who we are, and how we honour them.  There isn’t a week that goes by, that my mind doesn’t wander off to someone who has passed away in my half-a century of time here on the planet (and YES usually sparked by something so pure and simple).  And each recollection makes me pause to wonder at how much I loved them, what they meant to me, and the GIFTS they left me in regards to how I live my life.  They are gone, but sooo not forgotten.

May the OP find as much peace and security in your words, as I know you have given to me, and no doubt others who read your reply.

 

Post # 14
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1691 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

So very sorry. Very very sorry. You made me cry with your poem and again when I read this post. Your mom was lucky to have such a wonderful caring daughter, and no doubt she knew that. Cherish your memories, they willie help you through this time. Xoxo

Ps – Nona you made me cry too…

Post # 15
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170 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. I just want to say one thing to you. Don’t regret that you didn’t stay with your mom the night she passed away. I work in hospice and a lot of times when family leaves (for the day, nigh, etc) that is when the patient chooses to pass away. Your mom may have thought it would have been too hard for you to be there when she passed away. I will pray for you and know that your mother loves you and always will.

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