- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
Long story short I would have considered her one of my bestfriends…
1 year ago she got waste loss surgery and now that she is smaller it’s like she has lost her mind.
She s drinking going out and hanging out with new people. I’m all for that, but it has ended her marriage. months ago I would have thought it crazy to not have her in my bridal party and her the same, but she has cheated on her husband 2 (once with a man and now in a relationship with a female, random) but whatever floats her boat.
She was preg. but lost the baby 4 months in… and she blames this behavior partially on that. And while I can understand that is devistating… your really going to blame your this on your non living child? I’ve tried so many times to get her help. Offering to find a counselor. She has made no effort. She is all talk it seems.
In my mind this isnt about her personally… it’s about her behavior. She has basically SPIT on the meaning of marriage. I really havent seen or spoken to her over the past 4 months.
I dont have a problem no having her in my bridal party and chances are I will not. My FH doesnt want anything to do with her after what she has dont to her husband and our friends agree. I want to be there for her, but she is an adult she needs to get it together.
MY problem is… I’m announcing my wedding party and have a dinner party in 1 month. I dont see things changing, so I will not be inviting her. I will be posting pictures and word will get to her about this party and her not being in my wedding. How do i handle this? What would you do. It feels like a hollywood movie… except I have NO monologue for my LEAD speech that brings everyone back together!
I’ve been going crazy for months.
Let me just add by saying I was not in her wedding nor was I invited they got married in a month after be high school sweethearts for 4 years, she invited me then had to uninvite me because “there can only be family” I have to uninvited friends to make sure family can attend. WHATEVER. I’m still bitter, but honestly could careless.