(Closed) GOOD friend and her marriage drama. How can I invite her?!! HELP!

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Should I invite her or keep her in my wedding party?
    Invite her to the wedding only, with no date (do not put in bridal party) : (14 votes)
    58 %
    let her be in your wedding party (forgive her) : (1 votes)
    4 %
    do not invite her at all, she has disgraced marriage : (5 votes)
    21 %
    GOOD LUCK. LOL : (4 votes)
    17 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1461 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    This sounds really stressful! I definitely wouldn’t have her in your wedding party. It depends on the size and feel of your wedding, since you don’t sound like you are very close anymore, you might not want to invite her to that as well. You want to avoid negative emotions on your wedding day 🙂

    Post # 4
    Member
    7173 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    I think it boils down to do you want to be her friend or not.  If she’s changed too much and you no longer wish to be her friend, then I see no reason to invite her or include her in the bridal party.  If you do want to be her friend, at the very least, you should invite her to the wedding.

    To me, it’s about your friendship – not how her actions/behavior may or may not be a disgrace to the instituion of marriage.

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