(Closed) Good friend’s crazy fiance…how would you handle this??

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Does she have no other weekend free??  I’d suggest the idea of combined party to since you have mutual friends anyways.   It cant be worse than not suggesting it.  She either wants to and that’d work out.  Or she doesnt and you still have the same drama queen on your hands.  Its rediculous she would choose the same date!  I definately would not have if I were her espescially since she is just friends with your mutual friends through her fiance so I assume they are closer to you as well and have been planning to go to yours. 

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

no offense, but to me it sounds like she did that on purpose!  I’d suggest the combined party, but wouldn’t be surprised if she declined. 

Are they at the same time?  Is it possible that the friends will be able to go from one to the other without problems? (it sounds like she also scheduled it at the same time… but don’t want to presume anything…)

so, so sorry you have to deal with this!  hope it works out for you!!!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

If she was half normal maybe I would suggest a combined party but as you say she is crazy and honestly this is something you have planned for a really long time that your friends have probably all known about for a significant amount of time and have probably already made their decision to attend yours.

Maybe this makes me kind of mean, but I would have my party and do what I planned to do and have a good time. This is meant to be a fun thing and someone like that is going to bring you down and make this no fun for alot of people. Don’t worry about her. She planned it on the same day and thats her issue. This isn’t something you should fix for her.

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