Post # 1
Ok…So I have been friends with this guys for the longest time, and don’t get me wrong I think his fiance has been good for him to calm him down a little bit, but she is crazy. Absolutely crazy. Needless to say they got engaged.
Anyway, our weddings are 1 month apart. My bachelorette has been planned for the longest time, since I have so many people that travel or are out of town that wanted to come. She was well aware of the date, not to mention we are going about an hour away to celebrate it, which she is also fully aware of. Doesn’t she send a message to my sister in law saying she is now doing her bachelorette the same day as mine, and in the same town. We have soooo many mutual friends (they are friend’s with her through her fiance, but they have been my friends for a long time) that I feel bad for them to have to choose or feel like they need to be in two places at once. I wouldn’t mind doing a combined party, but like I said, she’s crazy, and drama filled, and cries pretty much everytime I see the girl. So I am super hesitant to do that. What are you thoughts?
Post # 3
Does she have no other weekend free?? I’d suggest the idea of combined party to since you have mutual friends anyways. It cant be worse than not suggesting it. She either wants to and that’d work out. Or she doesnt and you still have the same drama queen on your hands. Its rediculous she would choose the same date! I definately would not have if I were her espescially since she is just friends with your mutual friends through her fiance so I assume they are closer to you as well and have been planning to go to yours.
Post # 4
no offense, but to me it sounds like she did that on purpose! I’d suggest the combined party, but wouldn’t be surprised if she declined.
Are they at the same time? Is it possible that the friends will be able to go from one to the other without problems? (it sounds like she also scheduled it at the same time… but don’t want to presume anything…)
so, so sorry you have to deal with this! hope it works out for you!!!
Post # 5
I have no idea why she did it. She’s got plenty of weekends free, considering they don’t even have a definite date yet! Which is why it makes her even crazier. The only idea that I thought of is everyone thinks she’s crazy, which I think she’s getting the picture of, so she plans it to be the same time, same area, to ‘bump’ into us so she doesn’t have to worry about people not coming to hers!
Post # 6
If she was half normal maybe I would suggest a combined party but as you say she is crazy and honestly this is something you have planned for a really long time that your friends have probably all known about for a significant amount of time and have probably already made their decision to attend yours.
Maybe this makes me kind of mean, but I would have my party and do what I planned to do and have a good time. This is meant to be a fun thing and someone like that is going to bring you down and make this no fun for alot of people. Don’t worry about her. She planned it on the same day and thats her issue. This isn’t something you should fix for her.