(Closed) Good Friends Wedding…Changes

posted 8 years ago in Destination Weddings
Post # 3
4480 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

They probably put a lot of thought into changing the venue, because that is a really big deal. I’m sorry your SO was hurt… but I would try to be understanding of them. I’m sure they wouldn’t have done it unless they either had to or it was REALLY important to them.

Post # 5
168 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Honestly I’m not sure why his so upset. It’s a year away and more than enough time to save up money. Does he feel as if it’s done to keep him out of the wedding?

Post # 6
1982 posts
Buzzing bee

I kind of have to side with missplanner… does your SO know the time and costs associated with the wedding? We’ve changed so much on ours because we NEED to save money and went in really clueless about how much weddings cost. And they may be figuring out how to approach the GMs/BMs now about how they’re going to handle it. Kinda sucks, but sometimes things just don’t work out. Nothing to get too upset over! I’m sure they’ll have the wedding of their dreams and you’ll have the wedding of yours 🙂

Post # 7
1220 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

We had to change our Destination Wedding venue and we just talked to our bridal party and gave them an out if they needed on due to finances.  Have they done this?  How far away are we talking?

Post # 8
916 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2010 - Al Cielo / La Laguna

I feel bad for your SO but I hope he comes to understand that even though he would be happy to be there, the bride and groom would spend their day regretting the fact they decided to stay and make everyone else happy.  

Could your SO go for just 2 days?  It wouldn’t cost as much and he would still get to be there for the wedding.

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