(Closed) "Good" things to enjoy while waiting…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

@cali_cat:  A Year from now I will be planning a wedding, this may be my last holiday/birthday/anniversary before being engaged, SO knows me well enough to plan the ultimate surprise engagement, SO wants to marry me

Post # 4
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506 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

So sweet! : )

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

How about the fact that you are alive and get to plan for tomorrow??

Seriously, ladies. I mean this the kindest way possible: don’t let waiting take over your life. Just live your life and when it happens it happens. Speaking from experience here!

Life in waiting “mode” should be no different than life in “regular” mode!

Post # 6
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Helper bee

@cali_cat:  This is sweet. I was saying to my best friend on the phone yesterday (who I’ve been venting to about the troubles of waiting) that I have butterflies ALL THE TIME. I’ve been with my SO for 7 1/2 years, so by now, I’m very comfortable with him. It’s been so long since I’ve had that new relationship butterfly feeling. And it’s kind of fun! I iove that I feel so comfortable and calm with him in general, but it is nice to have a little taste of nerves for a bit. I’m sure I’ll get them again on my wedding day!

But I hope I don’t have to wait too much longer!

Post # 8
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Worker bee

Oh this is a great post, I highly agree. I also love how we get to fantasize about the future, without having to be stressed out by the realities of planning a wedding! Truthfully real wedding planning cannot be nearly as fun as pinning random things onto my Wedding Pinterest board!

Also every major event/trip suddenly becomes that much more exciting!

 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

  • You can catch the bouquet at weddings
  • You can sing “All the Single Ladies” and mean it
  • You can dream about diamonds which may be coming 
  • You can learn from other people’s weddings
  • Your Fiance can make hints and it’s super exciting!

 

Post # 10
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1417 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

This is a cute post!

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Nice post!

Post # 12
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646 posts
Busy bee

Anyone find it interesting that this super cute post has 9 replies, while the negative Nancy post has 150???

Ok, things to be happy for…

More time to save money to have an amazing wedding

YES to singing Single Ladies!!

THe excitement of every weekend together wondering, is it going to happen now?? While frustrating, its also kinda fun 😉

 

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

How happy it makes you every time someone tells you “you’re next!”

All your married friends are bummed cuztheir day has flown by…and you still get to dream about yours!

You get to hang out with all the amazing girls on the waiting boards and you still love hearing engagement stories! ; )

Post # 14
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6078 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2019

Lovely post and some lovely ways to look at things!

Last time that I would be free to say yes is Johnny Depp propositioned me?!! lol (JK JK I am in a committed relationship, of course I would say no!)

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

At the last wedding we went to I vowed this would be the last wedding I go to as a Girlfriend.

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