- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2013
this reminded me of an episode of this reality show I was watching about outlaw bikers. One of the older biker guys loss his wife of 30yrs to cancer. He remarried and every weekend him and his new wife would go visit her grave, with the new wife bringing get flowers. The husband would cry at her grave while his new wife comforted him.
If the new wife knows that your uncle was and is still deeply in love with your aunt, she shouldn’t try to erase his memories of her. I think it’s petty of his wife to be so insecure of his late wife and her/his family. And I think its unfortunate that your uncle is letting her take the part of his life spent with his late wife, instead of honoring and remembering her. I can understand how you’re feeling. I have uncle’s by marriage that have been in the family before I was born, so I see them as my first uncles, just like my blood relatives. It would be weird to not have them apart of my life. And I’m sure your family would have been happy to see him too.
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