(Closed) Got an invite to a baby shower last night BUT

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

That’s happened to me before too! AWKWARD!!!!!!!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Yea thats crazy.  its happened to be before too. 

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Just send her a card with lots of CONGRATULATIONS I’M SO EXCITED FOR YOU I CAN’T WAIT TO SEE PICTURES OF THE BABY!!!!!!! if you’re not actually going. πŸ˜‰ And no one’s the wiser!

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Well in that case, you can just express enough enthusiasm there to make up for the months of silence. πŸ™‚

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2008

Yeah, honestly, just call her and tell her how excited you are and how you can’t believe you didn’t know!! I sometimes felt invisible to my friends once pregnant and would  have loved a call like that πŸ™‚  Maybe she meant to tell you and forgot and feels horrible herself!! also if she did notice your silence, its probably best for her to know why rather than think you didn’t care….

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@SoontobeMrsA: Maybe she didn’t really broadcast it.

Unless people have seen me in the past few months or I’ve specifically told them there’s not much of a way for them to know about my pregnancy. All my facebook pics are in a private album that I only share with a few people so I don’t think it’s crazy that you didn’t know.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I wouldn’t feel too bad! We’re keeping it to ourselves and not broadcasting it, she just might have done the same thing. For all you know, it’s a surprise for everyone who doesn’t see her on a regular basis lol!

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I don’t think you should feel bad- I’m due in two weeks and some people I see regularly didn’t know or realize that I was pregnant until around February. What matters is that you’re excited for her now!

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee

On of my friends called me from CO to tell me she was 6 months pregnant, and I got the shower invite I think the next day.  They were being super conservative, though, bc she had some health issues in the past.  Could something like that be going on?  I’m guessing she just posted something on FB and assumed you saw it.

I felt horrible, bc my friend posted some major news on FB, and I totally missed it.  When I was IMing with him, I had no idea he had lost his baby and his wife almost died as well!  πŸ™

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