(Closed) Got Baby Lust? (20-29)

posted 7 years ago in Babies
  • poll: Baby Lust
    Heck Yes! I want to be preggers now! : (91 votes)
    52 %
    I want kids. But I'm not in a hurry. : (49 votes)
    28 %
    Not really. But I will probably want to eventually. : (18 votes)
    10 %
    Not planning to have kids. : (13 votes)
    7 %
    Already have children. : (5 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 4
    Member
    1506 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    We’re in a similar situation to you and your Darling Husband. We are 27, and logically we probably shouldn’t even think about having kids until we’ve bought a house and are more settled, but we had a “scare” this past month, and I realized that I totally wouldn’t mind if we got pregnant now. I’m still going to continue to protect myself until we’re 100% ready ready ready, but I can’t say the thought doesn’t cross my mind like all of the time!

    Post # 5
    Member
    542 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    We strongly want to start a family, and we are not even married yet! I’ll be 27 when I get married.

    Post # 6
    Member
    1493 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2009

    I got married at 29. Honestly, I just wasn’t ready until recently at 31-32.

    @MrsMcGyro: What’s funny was I had a scare where my BC period just decided not to arrive one month in our first year of marriage. I knew then that I wasn’t ready for it, just yet. Having two years to relax and enjoy our marriage has been nice. I’m ready for kids now.

    Post # 7
    Member
    5784 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I’m 27 and he’s 34 and we’re assuming we’ll want them in a few years. No baby fever here.

    I think part of the problem is almost all his friends have babies and they fell off the face of the earth. His bf is pregnant now and I have a feeling that if they have a good experience my Darling Husband will develop baby fever.

    Post # 8
    Member
    2701 posts
    Sugar bee

    I was anti-children for my entire life. Darling Husband and I got married two weeks ago and my biological clock went off LOUD AND CLEAR. I feel that after we are more financially stable and move to a better place, we will start trying. It seems like a foreign language to me, but it is an overwhelming desire to start a family. Baby lust is a great way to put it.

    ETA: I am 24, Darling Husband is 26

    Post # 9
    Member
    161 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @MissShork: I love this thread:)  I am 27 and I is 28 and we’re planning on starting to TTC right after the wedding!  Hopefully we’ll see each other soon on the nesting boards!

    Post # 10
    Member
    3982 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Ever since everything happened I am seriously having baby fever. Mr. Hedgie wants to wait a while before trying and I understand. I know we should but it is definately hard now.

    Post # 11
    Member
    5668 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I’m not interested in having children at any point.

    Post # 12
    Member
    13099 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I’m 24 and I definitely have the baby rabies.  Darling Husband and I don’t plan to TTC for another 3 years or so though because we want to be in a position where we can still live quite comfortably while I am able to be a Stay-At-Home Mom.

    Post # 13
    Member
    2463 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    i’m 27 and hubs is 29 and i think we’re going to start trying next summer…i can’t wait! especially because i just got back from a visit with my insanely adorable and precocious 2 1/2 year old niece, who makes me really want to get off the pill!

    Post # 14
    Member
    2103 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I’m in the weird space between:

    Heck Yes! I want to be preggers now!

    I want kids. But I’m not in a hurry.

    Sometimes the lust is incredibly high, other times not so much. It waxes and wanes.

    Post # 15
    Member
    615 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I have always loved children and will be so happy when the day comes that we get to start our family, but for now we are definitely waiting. I am such a different person now than when I was 21, 22… I can’t even imagine what it would have been like if I’d been married and trying to have a baby. My fiance and I will be 26 and 27 when we’re married in April, and are going to try to stick to being baby-free for at least a year or two. I really do want to enjoy being a married couple and having the freedom to do as we please before starting our family. While we’re generally homebodies and a fun weekend to us is Netflix and a bottle of wine, we still like being able to drop everything and go to a bar or take a weekend trip somewhere, or blow a chunk of money on something for the house (or a trip) and not have to worry about it.

    Luckily we already bought our house and have completely renovated it so that’s a HUGE chunk of work and effort already out of the way, but it leaves us with the luxury of getting a lot of “us” time and I figure we ought to enjoy it while we can.

    Post # 16
    Member
    2584 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    @MissShork: I’m 20, 21 when we get married, and Fiance is 23. We definitely both want kids but we both know we have to wait a few years… we both agree that around 25 sounds good, assuming we’re financially set. I love everything baby though- the babies themselves, clothes, TTC talk, everything. So I am excited ๐Ÿ™‚

     

    @RayRayFurious: Same here. I know logically we’re going to be waiting a few years but some days I just want to start now! lol. Then others I’m glad we have some time yet.

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