- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
I got engaged last week and I am only 20, but i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we are both really mature and ready for a serious commitment. All of my close friends have left comments like “im so happy for you” or “finally! i knew this was coming!”
i am so furious, because my parents went to church where they announced that I was engaged. and what do people do??? they asked “OH, shes so young, did she get pregnant or something?”
HOW. RUDE. IS. THAT.?
This honestly is part of the reason i stopped going to church. people can be so judgemental there.
I mean, cant people get engaged because theyre in love? I dont understand why people need to make the rudest comments just because i’m 20… It’s like being pregnant was the only way to validate my decision.