Post # 1
So yesterday me and my SO were laying in bed. He came over after work. We start ttalking about pre-marital counseling that he gets for free through his job ( he works at a mega church in the MD area).. well then he starts talking about spending the rest of his life with me and how he is ready. So i am feeding into these comments asking questions like whats your vision on our marriage and when would you propose? And he said you never know I am spontaneous it could be right now while we are talkingand goes into his pocket and pulls out………… HIS CELLPHONE SMH!!!!!!!!
ughhh I was stunned LOL…. In June he stated by next June we would be engaged and it could be sooner. And he is really spontaneous so it’s going to be hard to figure it out.. but sheesh my heart sank for a second…. Did something like this happen to anyone else
Post # 3
YES! My SO and I went for a walk.. he insisted that we went to a beautiful trail near our houses… he took me to a bridge and it was AMAZING, a waterfall, an old stone mill, moss on the trees sparkling sun.. as we were walking up to the bridge he said this place was where we should have our wedding pics done.
We come to the bridge and he turns takes my hands in his, takes a deep breath (im going NUTS inside) .. and then says, im sorry for arguing with you last week, I love you.
AHH!! Like, thanks so much for the amazing heartfelt apology but REALLY!!! I totally thought that was it.
So I feel your pain.. haha
Post # 4
- Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center
I think he was trying to be playful. He just told you he is ready! that is huge! Good For Y’all! He has just told you he wants to jump on that band-wagon. let him crack a joke. But if it persist, nip that in the butt.
BUT GOOD FOR YOU GUYS!
Post # 5
@Seashells7: OMG I would have hurt him.. It was the same I am just like why do that!!!
@Sapphire-Dreamer: Well we have been had this talk.. it was just weird that he was reinterating it out the blue… SMH it was such a mean joke…
Post # 6
@msbriezyb: haha the sad thing is, I dont even think he realized how what he was doing came across! After that I became more patient I think.. I am so thankful for him
good luck! I hope it comes soon
Post # 7
Aw poor you, don’t worry you aren’t the only one.
Last year my bf and I went on holiday. On our last day when we were packing to leave, my bf asked me to check under the bed to make sure nothing was left behind. As I crouched down, I saw something glittering and was shocked to see a diamond ring under the bed. At this point my heart was racing and I felt myself go bright red. I looked up at my bf but he had gone into the bathroom to tidy up. I really didn’t know if this was a proposal or if someone had just lost their ring so I stood up and played it cool. At this point my bf randomly says “so what do you think about marriage proposals where the guy leaves the ring for the girl to find?”!!
At this point I was starting to believe this could be it, and felt myself literally turn purple! My bf looked at me and asked “what on earth is wrong, you look so ill”. I picked up the ring and showed it to him. Turns out it was someone else’s ring that had been lost, and my bf wasn’t proposing, it was just a (horrible) coincedence that he decided to bring up proposals as I saw this random ring on the floor. My bf realised why I had gone so red and then it was awkward for the whole trip home
I guess this wasn’t so bad for me because at this point I wasn’t “waiting”, since we hadn’t been together for long and I had never thought about a proposal. It was more just embarrassing x
Post # 8
@princess_moody: Too bad he didn’t just lie, and said… Surprise!
Post # 9
@happyface: Haha, but the ring was really ugly x
Post # 10
@princess_moody: OMG I would have died…. that is so crazy!!!!!! I am glad I am not the only who had a moment like this
Post # 11
@princess_moody: ACK. That is the most awkward thing I have ever heard.