(Closed) Got excited for second….

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1294 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

YES! My SO and I went for a walk.. he insisted that we went to a beautiful trail near our houses… he took me to a bridge and it was AMAZING, a waterfall, an old stone mill, moss on the trees sparkling sun.. as we were walking up to the bridge he said this place was where we should have our wedding pics done. 

We come to the bridge and he turns takes my hands in his, takes a deep breath  (im going NUTS inside) .. and then says, im sorry for arguing with you last week, I love you. 

AHH!! Like, thanks so much for the amazing heartfelt apology but REALLY!!! I totally thought that was it. 

So I feel your pain.. haha 

Post # 4
3421 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

I think he was trying to be playful. He just told you he is ready! that is huge! Good For Y’all! He has just told you he wants to jump on that band-wagon. let him crack a joke. But if it persist, nip that in the butt.


Post # 6
1294 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@msbriezyb:  haha the sad thing is, I dont even think he realized how what he was doing came across! After that I became more patient I think.. I am so thankful for him 


good luck! I hope it comes soon 

Post # 7
26 posts

Aw poor you, don’t worry you aren’t the only one.


Last year my bf and I went on holiday. On our last day when we were packing to leave, my bf asked me to check under the bed to make sure nothing was left behind. As I crouched down, I saw something glittering and was shocked to see a diamond ring under the bed. At this point my heart was racing and I felt myself go bright red. I looked up at my bf but he had gone into the bathroom to tidy up. I really didn’t know if this was a proposal or if someone had just lost their ring so I stood up and played it cool. At this point my bf randomly says “so what do you think about marriage proposals where the guy leaves the ring for the girl to find?”!!


At this point I was starting to believe this could be it, and felt myself literally turn purple! My bf looked at me and asked “what on earth is wrong, you look so ill”. I picked up the ring and showed it to him. Turns out it was someone else’s ring that had been lost, and my bf wasn’t proposing, it was just a (horrible) coincedence that he decided to bring up proposals as I saw this random ring on the floor. My bf realised why I had gone so red and then it was awkward for the whole trip home Frown

I guess this wasn’t so bad for me because at this point I wasn’t “waiting”, since we hadn’t been together for long and I had never thought about a proposal. It was more just embarrassing x

Post # 11
4659 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@princess_moody:  ACK. That is the most awkward thing I have ever heard. 

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