- 8 years ago
- Wedding: August 2010
Ok so, I now know not to have a wedding on a tuesday because well not as many people are able to show and people have to leave early. I planned and planned for a year planning out big details and the smallest of details and yet some of my plans didnt turn out. Im feeling icky because my husbands family all came in from everywhere and my family and friends that did come didnt want to get to know any of his family. After it was all over and people went home on the 5th. I felt really really sad and my stomach was upset. Days later and after the honeymoon i look at the left over wedding stuff and im still sad. sad that some things didnt happen the way i wanted it to and sad that our friends and family arent here and even sad that no one signed the picture matt that i had. toward the end of the decorating i was so busy that i just left everything up to my friends and family. they did a good job so i dont know why im feeling this way. our wedding ended way to early. our ceremony was at 245 and my husband and i got to the reception hall at about 400 had our dance ate threw boquet and garder ect. people started leaving around 530 right after dinner. Even my uncle (who walked me down the isle) was going to leave at about 530 and i started to cry and asked him to please stay just a bit longer. so he would stay and about 645 he say he was leaving and of course id start to cry uncontrollably again. this went on until he finally did leave at 800. No one saved me any of the flowers or food. It got so bad about me not wanting the night to end that my husband/ my aunt/my sister / my friend from when i was 8/ and my cousin all went out to the bar—-in our wedding attire mind you!
I have never been married before and i have never even been to a real wedding and im wondering if this is really how it is suppose to go? People at the wedding said it was a great wedding and they had a good time; im not sure?
Anyone else feel this gut renching ache about it being over and the things that could of been different?