(Closed) Got married on Saturday, It was ruined by my crazy MIL

posted 7 years ago in Recaps
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wow. thats insane.

I’m so sorry this happend to you! There is no shortage of family drama involving weddings!

Congratulations on your marriage, the rest should seem easy in comparison!

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

wow, im so sorry this happened to you!  there is nothing worse than a family member being hateful and hurtful at a wedding.  i think you should take a look at mrs socks’ posts about what happened at her wedding, especially her post on toxic relationships:

http://www.weddingbee.com/2010/10/20/horrible-wedding-day/

http://www.weddingbee.com/2010/10/21/now-what/

She also suggests this blog to get away from being bullied.  It sounds silly, but even as adults, we can be bullied: http://www.bulliesbegoneblog.com/2009/11/04/stop-bullies-especially-toxic-parents/

 

good luck with all this.  I wish you and your husband the best and hope that you’ll both come out of this stronger together.

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I really don’t think that there is anything that I can say to make you situation any better! I know that it probably feels good just to get it out. I think that some people are just so miserable in their own lives that they feel they need to bring other people down as well. There is nothing that can be done about this crazy woman now, you just need to cut ties and not let her control the rest of your life. I would hate to see how she acts if you have children… What does your husband say about the way she is acting? He may need to talk to her and tell her that if she doesn’t back off then she is going to lose a relationship with him?!

Post # 6
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1686 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Brynnmarielle:

I am so sorry. Good for you, standing up to her.

Post # 7
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916 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wow. I am so very sorry that this happened to you! I thought my Future Mother-In-Law was bad, but not so much after reading this. She is throwing our at home reception so naturally she’s taking over on pretty much everything and not communicating anything to us about her plans for it.

Look on the bright side, at least you’re finally married to the love of your life. Congrats. Hope that things get better for you!

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper

I usually try and explain things from a parents’ view when I hear these things, but in this case, she sounds like a LOON and you are better off without her. Really…how dare she? I feel so bad for you. 🙁

Post # 9
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968 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Congrats on your marriage! Your Darling Husband sounds really sweet. You Mother-In-Law on the other hand…I don’t blame you at all for not speaking to her at this point. 

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

WOW. I am short of words. I am so sorry that your planning and your day has been ruined by a psycho, egotistical maniac! I only pray that she does not get in the way of your happy future with your new hubby!

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Wow.

That’s all I have for that. I’m sorry for you.

Post # 14
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10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Oh hon. I am jaw on the floor shocked. That is horrible. Terrible beyond words. Good for you for sticking up for yourself and Darling Husband, and for Darling Husband to stand by your side and support you doing it! What a horrible horrible person!!! I hope in some time you’ll be able to remember the great things about your wedding and not have it all tainted by her and the terrible things she said and did. ((hugs))

Post # 15
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10453 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

Wow that is awful, I’m so sorry that happened to you!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’m sorry that happened.  It sounds like your Mother-In-Law gets a kick out of hurting other people and really needed someone to stand up to her.  Some people you can not please and it’s just best to stay away from then even if they are family.

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