(Closed) Got our first NO reponse and I’m a little sad :(

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2634 posts
Sugar bee

I’m so sorry.

I just mailed our invites out today and am not looking forward to the “no’s” (and I know there will be several), but try not to take it personally.


Post # 4
5655 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

*HUGS* I’ve started thinking about the NO’s that we’re going to get. I would try and not let it get you too down for too long and just think about those that will come… even if they aren’t family and they’re more friends.. these are the ones that care/love/and want to celebrate with you!

Keep them in the forefront and the rest in the back 😉

Post # 5
2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Big hugs. I won’t lie, it sucks when your family RSVP “No”. Pretty much none of my extended family are coming (ok, because they live overseas, but still) and ALL of FH’s extended family are coming. It’s fine. Deep breath and try not to take it personally (again, I know it’s hard) and very soon you won’t even think about it.

Post # 6
2532 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Getting the no responses definitely sucks! As much as I was concerned about our numbers I did not like the feeling of getting a no response in the mail! I know that he will have a lot more people on his side as well and he has more friends than I do so that makes me sad, but in the end it doesnt matter because everyone is there for US! Im sorry you feel upset but I promise that once more Yes responses start coming in you will feel better!

Post # 7
88 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I wish my future SIL would respond no!!

Post # 8
913 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Unfortunately I can’t understand your pain…..I am hoping for at least 40 “NOs”.  Is this bad?   hahahaaa

Post # 9
401 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Dont wprry huh what about your friends?? you have lots of friends right?? that wil help you have lots of people in your corner.

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