(Closed) got the call for my dress, my heart sank.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1982 posts
Buzzing bee

missjyc, i’m in the same boat. Fiance does a lot more for me, and it sucks, but we recently joined mint.com and put both of our accounts on the same mint account, so we think of it as “our money” now. He’s always going to make more than me, so it’s something I have to get used to, but I feel a little better seeing how I contribute. Maybe you could do something like this?

Edit: ALSO, OMG DRESS YAY!

Post # 5
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818 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Good luck with everything. I’m sorry the finances didn’t work out for you. My husband and I paid for the majority of our wedding ourselves and it was hard.

Post # 6
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51 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

u dont have to pay for it right away. some dress shops hold it till it get close to your alteration day.

Post # 7
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928 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

congrats on getting the call for you dress, thats so exciting!! ok first thing, you are allowed to be happy and excited!! you are going to figure something out, so dont fret! im sure they can work out a payment plan, just talk to the store! and dont feel bad about your Fiance coming to the rescue, think of it this way: he’s marrying you and one day, your money is his and vive versa. he obviously loves and cares about you, it’ll be fine! im still in school and my Fiance is graduated so im constantly relying on him bc hes making money and im still a student. i usually feel kinda bad but he tells me that if he didnt love me, he wouldnt want to take care of me and that one day i can support him 😉

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