- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
First let me say i love my job! I’m a paralegal, I’ve been doing it for four years at the same law firm and I couldn’t be happier with what I do……it’s who i do it for that i’m starting to get annoyed with. He is condecending, rude, arrogant, FORGETFUL, the list could go on. He does not let me finish a sentence before cutting me off and basically telling me I’m wrong, he’s right he doesn’t give a damn basically what the rules are for Court, blah, blah, blah. He talks about us in front of clients, talking down to us or telling them our personal lives!!!!!!! It’s weird he tries so hard to be all godly and christian and nice but he comes off just being a total jerk. It’s one thing that he does it to me but he does it to clients too!!!!! I cannot tell you how many times i’ve had them call me crying their eyes out because he basically yells at them and tells them they’re stupid and they are going to loose everything and their children (family law). I find myself lately getting short with him and a month ago i was in tears and had to excuse myself to calm down all because he blamed me for loosing something that was on his desk the whole time. BUT THEN AGAIN…..he is kinda of laid back when i need to take time off or sick. When the ex ripped my heart out and lit it on fire he gave me a couple days off with pay, I don’t have great benefits but I get regular raises and in 4 years have increased my pay by almost 50%. He has been getting bad reviews on sites from angry clients and people have fired him. I know he’s a good person but is it really my place to even say a word about it to him? I do feel myself becoming very bitchy with him, even our partner notices. I actually care about our clients, we’re dealing with their lives and alot of times their children’s lives and I want to be sure we are doing the best for them but I feel like his approach or whatever the hell is going on with him is going to cost him (and me) big time in the end. If I shouldn’t say anything, any tips on how to make working for him a little easier????????