- 4 years ago
I just wanted to give an update on how things are going here. BF and I have had some great talks about timeline and we decided that we really want to be married by May of 2015. We discussed what kind of wedding we wanted and came to the same conclusion…we don’t want a big wedding. At all. BF did at first but then realized he hated being the center of attention/has stage fright to speak in front of people. We just want to get married. So instead of pre planning and saving money for a one day party, we decided to take that money and go on the two dream vacations we’ve been putting off for the past two years.
He still wants to buy a ring and do a whole engagement thing. As such, I told him I want a year so I can still have a dress for our mini day and get someone to take pics for our families (they’ll be sad to miss out, but happy with a picture).
So here we are. Engagement timeline set for May/June this year and then an elopement in May 2015. Yay for timelines! Sorry I was just so excited and wanted to tell someone. My BFF and I are getting together this week to chat about it but I really wanted to tell someone now! You have all been really supportive and I’ve been on the waiting bee list for a couple of months, but now truely feel like I’m worthy of the “waiting” title. I don’t know why we put these talks off for so long!